This cycling YouTuber explains that most common cogs to break on a bike are the small rear cogs and the middle cogs because they are asked to handle the most force and friction from the chain (https://youtu.be/L67pKpHGgE4?si=_UgSAdaIojiETkAO). This is a nice comparison to adolescence because we often feel clunky and misadjusted, just like a cog poorly fitting into a gear. We are still young, but we are also asked to begin to take on larger responsibilities and pressures. Let us be patient wit...
Being Patient With Ourselves